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Welcome to Real Talk, the official PAUSE Live blog. Here, our inspiring community of doctors, advocates, creatives, and change-makers share personal stories, expert insights, and empowering advice on all things menopause, midlife, and beyond. Whether you're seeking answers, solidarity, or a spark of self-love—we’ve got you.


By Alison Bladh May 16, 2025
We talk to Nutritionist and Alison Bladh about the mental load we carry as females and how this impact our lives and minds. For too many women over 40, there’s a quiet battle going on behind the scenes. From the outside, you may seem like you’ve got it all under control, juggling work, caring responsibilities, relationships, ageing parents and a million tabs open in your mind. But inside? It can feel like everything’s unravelling. The anxiety. The mood swings . The tears that come out of nowhere. The mental exhaustion. The truth is, most of us were never told that this phase of life could take such a toll on our emotional health .